Meet up in Bakersfield 2nd Saturdays -

LADIES SUPPORT MEETUP-Purple Hearts 4 Butterflies - in Bakerfield, Ca, 93312, Denny's Diner

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We have a "MEET UP" in Bakersfield, Ca, 93312 on the Second (2nd) Saturday of the month @ 11am- 

BE SURE TO CONTACT ME TO COMFIRM YOU PLAN ON GOING. I WILL NOT BE THERE  IF I DON'T RECEIVE ANYONE CONFIRMING. CONTACT TO CONFIRM AT LEAST 24 HOURS IN ADVANCE.

CONTACT BY CLICKING ON THE APPOINTMENT CHART ON THE LEFT SIDE AND EMAIL ME - 

djallen60@gmail.com - Thank you!

(we  meet at Denny's toward the far part in the front room area  of the restaurant  on W. Rosedale Hwy in the Target/Walmart shopping center, You don't HAVE to spend anything if you don't have it. If you are able to, a beverage would be great so we can stay meeting there where we are safe)

Denny's Diner at the Rosedale Shopping Plaza on Rosedale Hwy:
8710 Rosedale Hwy Bakersfield, CA 93312 - (661) 587-5900

Questions? leave message and I'll get back with you within a day: 916-799-0907

We share about our experiences regarding violent abuses, sexual abuses, child abuses, domestic abuses, rapes, to ever stripping, and prostituting 

due to maybe we were homeless, had low self esteem, or no where to go or live or anyone to turn to, and we will give moral support and pray for one another.  Give each other information and resources.

You will walk away feeling loved, supported, understood, and not judged or “weird”. We share our hope and positive stories; how we got out and got safe, how we've changed, what God has done in us so far, etc..

We can help others, or share the present situation you are in, and how you are dealing with it. We share with each other our hurts and painful memories in hopes to be set free from the pain and 

receive God’s joy, grace and love!

Come, and  pray to God for one another, for His help, support, guidance and direction in our lives towards healing and victory!

** If you don't live near by you can start a support meet up group as well. If you would like a guide to help you follow, I recommend "The Christian Guide to the 12 Steps" and apply it to this topic//issue/subject!

Do you ever feel this way? How were you received- truthfully...Give a good and a bad experience

You know what sucks? When you finally open up and share to people who are suppose to care for you or have your back, that you've been raped by someone in "your fold" and "those" who say they "love" you, dis you altogether. That's so WRONG! 


It takes so much courage to finally share it and to be dissed or dis-friended, that is just not love, kindness, or care- total stupidity. 
This happened  to me!


It's hard for me to trust women or men... I was sexually assaulted by a bisexual gal who was my best friend years ago, assaulted by so called "boyfriends" and whoever, then teased and ridiculed by women, as well as men, - And men,  they just tell you what they think you want to hear, then you start  to trust them and open up just to get used and dumped!  I'm getting to the point I just don't like too many people anymore- to be close friends with. 


Being abused and neglected growing up doesn't help in the trust category either. I just basically, don't believe people - only Jesus. He only doesn't lie or fool me. Even my own family members blatantly lie or be secretive to me. 


Does anyone at all feel this way or am I alone feeling this way?