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LADIES SUPPORT MEETUP-Purple Hearts 4 Butterflies - in Bakerfield, Ca, 93312, Denny's Diner

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We have a "MEET UP" in Bakersfield, Ca, 93312 on the Second (2nd) Saturday of the month @ 11am- 

BE SURE TO CONTACT ME TO COMFIRM YOU PLAN ON GOING. I WILL NOT BE THERE  IF I DON'T RECEIVE ANYONE CONFIRMING. CONTACT TO CONFIRM AT LEAST 24 HOURS IN ADVANCE.

CONTACT BY CLICKING ON THE APPOINTMENT CHART ON THE LEFT SIDE AND EMAIL ME - 

djallen60@gmail.com - Thank you!

(we  meet at Denny's toward the far part in the front room area  of the restaurant  on W. Rosedale Hwy in the Target/Walmart shopping center, You don't HAVE to spend anything if you don't have it. If you are able to, a beverage would be great so we can stay meeting there where we are safe)

Denny's Diner at the Rosedale Shopping Plaza on Rosedale Hwy:
8710 Rosedale Hwy Bakersfield, CA 93312 - (661) 587-5900

Questions? leave message and I'll get back with you within a day: 916-799-0907

We share about our experiences regarding violent abuses, sexual abuses, child abuses, domestic abuses, rapes, to ever stripping, and prostituting 

due to maybe we were homeless, had low self esteem, or no where to go or live or anyone to turn to, and we will give moral support and pray for one another.  Give each other information and resources.

You will walk away feeling loved, supported, understood, and not judged or “weird”. We share our hope and positive stories; how we got out and got safe, how we've changed, what God has done in us so far, etc..

We can help others, or share the present situation you are in, and how you are dealing with it. We share with each other our hurts and painful memories in hopes to be set free from the pain and 

receive God’s joy, grace and love!

Come, and  pray to God for one another, for His help, support, guidance and direction in our lives towards healing and victory!

** If you don't live near by you can start a support meet up group as well. If you would like a guide to help you follow, I recommend "The Christian Guide to the 12 Steps" and apply it to this topic//issue/subject!

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Pedophile guide sparks outrage, debate

By Sabrina Rodriguez, Eyewitness News

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Summary

The sale of the e-book "The Pedophile's Guide to Love and Pleasure: A Child-lover's Code of Conduct" on Amazon.com has sparked outrage and debate among parents and free-speech advocates.

Story Created: Nov 10, 2010 at 6:17 PM PST

Story Updated: Nov 10, 2010 at 7:31 PM PST

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BAKERSFIELD, Calif. -- The sale of the e-book "The Pedophile's Guide to Love and Pleasure: A Child-lover's Code of Conduct" onAmazon.com has sparked outrage and debate among parents and free-speech advocates.
One of those parents is Bakersfield mother-of-two Cheryl Alvarado.
"We joke you can find it on Amazon," she said. But Alvarado said the subject of the e-book is no laughing matter.
"It's very disgusting. It's very disturbing," she said.
The book is on sale for $4.79 on Amazon.com.
"I have two small children. That concerns me a lot that that's even available," said Alvarado. "This crossed the line, for sure."
And Alvarado's not the only one who thinks so.
There are more than 1,200 customer reviews of this book on the website, and most are not positive.
One person calls it a disgusting abomination. Another writes, "Take this down, or I will never buy from Amazon."
One person, who didn't condone the content, pointed out "no one is forcing you to buy it."
Eyewitness News downloaded a copy of the book to see exactly what it said.
In the book, author Phillip R. Greaves II, who is also the publisher, writes: "It is not my intention to promote or excuse this practice."
Greaves goes on to write: "My purpose is to make these encounters as safe as possible for juveniles finding themselves in these situations. I hope to achieve this end by establishing certain rules for pedophiles and by appealing to their better selves."
He also remind readers that "it's against the law to act on these feelings by engaging in sexual activities with those who have not yet reached the age of legal consent."
However Greaves lists what he calls the appropriate sex acts between true pedosexuals and minor children.
"Sexual acts between true pedosexuals and minor children are restricted to kissing (no tongue), licking, sucking, fondling, caressing, cuddling and mutual masturbation."
Despite the public outrage, Amazon defends the sale of this book.
"Amazon.com believes it is censorship not to sell certain titles because we believe their message is objectionable," the company said.
Alvarado agrees to an extent.
"I understand no censorship, but this person's describing illegal sex acts with a minor," the Bakersfield mother said.
She also said, "(The author) has a right to say whatever he wants, I guess anyone else could write a book on how to kill a pedophile and it could be a best seller on Amazon."
While the book is protected under the First Amendment, Alvarado has made up her mind about how to deal with it.
"I do quite a bit of my Christmas shopping on line, and I don't think I'll be going through Amazon," she said.
Eyewitness News tried to contact the author for an interview, but could not reach him.
Eyewitness News also called Amazon.com for an interview but did not hear back from them.

Panel: Calif. should end sex-offender housing ban

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Calif. should end sex-offender housing ban

By DON THOMPSON, Associated Press

Summary

A law enforcement panel is recommending that California voters repeal residency restrictions for sex offenders because too many of them are listed as transient, making them more difficult to monitor.

• STORY Story Created: Nov 11, 2010 at 4:36 PM PST

Story Updated: Nov 11, 2010 at 4:36 PM PST

The Megan's Law online sex offender registry is seen in this 2009 file photo.

Jessica's Law, passed by 70 percent of California voters in 2006, prohibits released sex offenders from living within 2,000 feet of a school or park.SACRAMENTO, Calif. (AP) — A law enforcement panel is recommending that California voters repeal residency restrictions for sex offenders because too many of them are listed as transient, making them more difficult to monitor.
The draft report says the prohibition means there are few places the offenders can legally live in many communities. That forces many of them to say they are homeless, making it difficult for agents to track them.
The report, obtained by The Associated Press, estimates that 2,100 sex offenders list themselves as transient.
Corrections spokeswoman Terry Thornton said Thursday the draft is being reviewed by the governor's office before its official release.

Fairfield Teacher Accused Of Sex With Teen - Sacramento News Story - KCRA Sacramento

Fairfield Teacher Accused Of Sex With Teen - Sacramento News Story - KCRA Sacramento

FAIRFIELD, Calif. -- A Fairfield teacher is facing two felony counts after being arrested on felony charges of having sexual relations with a minor.

Vallejo police said they arrested Felicia Killings, 27, Tuesday at Rodriguez High School in Fairfield.

Killings was booked into the Solano County Jail but is now out on bail.

She faces felony charges of having sex with a minor and oral copulation.

According to the school's website, Killings is an English teacher.

Vallejo police are investigating the case because they believe many of the crimes took place at Killings' home.

The school district said Killings is on paid administrative leave.

Anyone with information on the case, or may know of any other possible victims, should call Vallejo police at 707-648-4321