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Showing posts with label sexual. Show all posts
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Thursday, November 11, 2010

Pedophile guide sparks outrage, debate

http://www.bakersfieldnow.com/news/107108178.html

Pedophile guide sparks outrage, debate


Summary

The sale of the e-book "The Pedophile's Guide to Love and Pleasure: A Child-lover's Code of Conduct" on Amazon.com has sparked outrage and debate among parents and free-speech advocates.
Story Created: Nov 10, 2010 at 6:17 PM PST
Story Updated: Nov 10, 2010 at 7:31 PM PST
BAKERSFIELD, Calif. -- The sale of the e-book "The Pedophile's Guide to Love and Pleasure: A Child-lover's Code of Conduct" onAmazon.com has sparked outrage and debate among parents and free-speech advocates.
One of those parents is Bakersfield mother-of-two Cheryl Alvarado.
"We joke you can find it on Amazon," she said. But Alvarado said the subject of the e-book is no laughing matter.
"It's very disgusting. It's very disturbing," she said.
The book is on sale for $4.79 on Amazon.com.
"I have two small children. That concerns me a lot that that's even available," said Alvarado. "This crossed the line, for sure."
And Alvarado's not the only one who thinks so.
There are more than 1,200 customer reviews of this book on the website, and most are not positive.
One person calls it a disgusting abomination. Another writes, "Take this down, or I will never buy from Amazon."
One person, who didn't condone the content, pointed out "no one is forcing you to buy it."
Eyewitness News downloaded a copy of the book to see exactly what it said.
In the book, author Phillip R. Greaves II, who is also the publisher, writes: "It is not my intention to promote or excuse this practice."
Greaves goes on to write: "My purpose is to make these encounters as safe as possible for juveniles finding themselves in these situations. I hope to achieve this end by establishing certain rules for pedophiles and by appealing to their better selves."
He also remind readers that "it's against the law to act on these feelings by engaging in sexual activities with those who have not yet reached the age of legal consent."
However Greaves lists what he calls the appropriate sex acts between true pedosexuals and minor children.
"Sexual acts between true pedosexuals and minor children are restricted to kissing (no tongue), licking, sucking, fondling, caressing, cuddling and mutual masturbation."
Despite the public outrage, Amazon defends the sale of this book.
"Amazon.com believes it is censorship not to sell certain titles because we believe their message is objectionable," the company said.
Alvarado agrees to an extent.
"I understand no censorship, but this person's describing illegal sex acts with a minor," the Bakersfield mother said.
She also said, "(The author) has a right to say whatever he wants, I guess anyone else could write a book on how to kill a pedophile and it could be a best seller on Amazon."
While the book is protected under the First Amendment, Alvarado has made up her mind about how to deal with it.
"I do quite a bit of my Christmas shopping on line, and I don't think I'll be going through Amazon," she said.
Eyewitness News tried to contact the author for an interview, but could not reach him.
Eyewitness News also called Amazon.com for an interview but did not hear back from them.

Panel: Calif. should end sex-offender housing ban

http://www.bakersfieldnow.com/news/local/107344808.html?
Panel: 
Calif. should end sex-offender housing ban
Story Updated: Nov 11, 2010 at 4:36 PM PST

The Megan's Law online sex offender registry is seen in this 2009 file photo.

Jessica's Law, passed by 70 percent of California voters in 2006, prohibits released sex offenders from living within 2,000 feet of a school or park.SACRAMENTO, Calif. (AP) — A law enforcement panel is recommending that California voters repeal residency restrictions for sex offenders because too many of them are listed as transient, making them more difficult to monitor.

The draft report says the prohibition means there are few places the offenders can legally live in many communities. That forces many of them to say they are homeless, making it difficult for agents to track them.
The report, obtained by The Associated Press, estimates that 2,100 sex offenders list themselves as transient.
Corrections spokeswoman Terry Thornton said Thursday the draft is being reviewed by the governor's office before its official release.

Wednesday, November 10, 2010

Fairfield Teacher Accused Of Sex With Teen - Sacramento News Story - KCRA Sacramento

Fairfield Teacher Accused Of Sex With Teen - Sacramento News Story - KCRA Sacramento


A Fairfield teacher is facing two felony counts after being arrested on felony charges of having sexual relations with a minor.

Vallejo police said they arrested Felicia Killings, 27, Tuesday at Rodriguez High School in Fairfield.
Killings was booked into the Solano County Jail but is now out on bail.
She faces felony charges of having sex with a minor and oral copulation.
According to the school's website, Killings is an English teacher.
Vallejo police are investigating the case because they believe many of the crimes took place at Killings' home.
The school district said Killings is on paid administrative leave.
Anyone with information on the case, or may know of any other possible victims, should call Vallejo police at 707-648-4321

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Tuesday, November 9, 2010

Caution: Relationship Lane Changes

Caution: Relationship Lane Changes
by Susan Murphy-Milano
Posted Wednesday, October 20, 2010 at 8:20 pm
Susan Powell was a stockbroker, a devoted mother to two young sons, married to Josh. As a stockbroker, she brought home a larger paycheck than her husband. As time passed in their marriage, Josh reportedly turned controlling. He insisted Susan tell him what she was doing when not under his radar. Josh probably demanded she tell him how much she spent—on herself and for household goods and services. In this type of scenario, as the tension mounts, the disagreements build up. The arguments escalate from yelling to shoving; bedroom doors are slammed with greater frequency, and the couple drifts apart. It’s like they are racing cars in parallel lanes—each accelerating, abruptly changing lanes, ducking emotional traffic and fearing a collision.
Women sometimes hope having children will change an abusive mate’s behavior. They hope the abuser will turn his/her life around for the sake of the children, resulting in a happy home life.
For Susan Powell, that didn’t happen. Pregnant, perhaps under circumstances beyond her control (she could have been forced as some are in marriage), Susan brought her second child into the world three years after her first. By that time, anger and violent outbursts had become commonplace in her marriage. Susan likely announced “The marriage is over.”
In the majority of abusive marriages such as this one, making statements such as, “we need to divorce” or “this is not fair to the children and I can no longer go on living this way” can be potentially lethal. For the safety of both the woman and her children, it is vital to have a plan in place before making such an announcement.
There is a stage for women, abused or not, when they verbally announce they are taking steps to end their marriage. This action lays the foundation for a scorned and angry abuser to consider their own course of action. At this stage, women begin confiding in coworkers or close friends. As I later learned from her friends and coworkers, this is exactly what Susan did.
To understand more about how alleged offenders think, I will use Josh Powell as an example. He began formulating a plan no different from the plans of other violent persons—one born of anger and desperation:
Anger because the person is leaving and ending the relationship.
Desperation over what he (the abuser) will be forced to carry out if he cannot persuade his partner to remain in the relationship.
Part 2 will appear next month…
A Special Note from Susan…
Before you announce your thoughts about how unhappy you are or that the relationship simply is not working for you any longer, have a solid plan in place. Women often fail to plan ahead in leaving; the underestimate what the abuser can and actually does ends up doing. The Institute offers exit planning strategies to prevent you from becoming an abuse statistic or the victim of Intimate Partner Homicide. If we can help you strategize to get ready for disconnection,* please let us. Most of all, be safe.

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Tuesday, October 19, 2010

Incest/Sexual Abuse Help- It is not your fault. It never was your fault

Incest/Sexual Abuse Help

A silent crime leading to a silent shame.  Incest survivors carry deep hidden scars. 
How prevalent is it? No one really knows. All survivors know is that this happens. 
Survivors know it happens all too often.

There is support and hope available. The following links are only a few of many 
sites which may offer to  lift a survivor out of despair and into the light of healing.

Incest survivors particularly, seem to bear the shame from the abuse. Please, know 
that it was not your fault. An innocent child does not bring this on themselves. You 
are not excluded. Bearing the shame of someone else's guilt is only one of the lies 
given when the unspeakable act occurs.

It is not your fault. It never was your fault. It never will be your fault. 
Please don't suffer in silence anymore.