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Monday, January 31, 2011
Saturday, January 15, 2011
Man charged with sexually abusing 12-year-old girl
Prosecutors filed rape and sexual abuse charges Friday against a 36-year-old Salt Lake City man accused of assaulting a 12-year-old girl.
Robert D. Thornton was charged in 3rd District Court with three counts of rape of a child, three counts of sodomy upon a child, three counts of aggravated sexual abuse of a child — all first-degree felonies— and one count of tampering with a witness, a third-degree felony.
Police discovered the abuse when an officer went to the home of the girl’s mother to check on the child’s welfare on Dec. 31, according to charging documents. The Tribune is not naming the mother to protect the girl’s identity.
The officer arrested Thornton and the mother, 33, on outstanding warrants, but the mother escaped after she was handcuffed. When a detective interviewed the girl, she said her mother had given her the prescription drugs Valium and Klonopin “to try.” She also told the detective that for the “past few months,” Thornton had been having sex with her and forcing her to perform oral sex two or three times, according to charging documents. He allegedly said he would “kill her if she told anyone.”
The mother, who is still at large, was charged with endangerment of a child and escape, both third-degree felonies.
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Man charged with sexually abusing 12-year-old girl
Prosecutors filed rape and sexual abuse charges Friday against a 36-year-old Salt Lake City man accused of assaulting a 12-year-old girl.
Robert D. Thornton was charged in 3rd District Court with three counts of rape of a child, three counts of sodomy upon a child, three counts of aggravated sexual abuse of a child — all first-degree felonies— and one count of tampering with a witness, a third-degree felony.
Police discovered the abuse when an officer went to the home of the girl’s mother to check on the child’s welfare on Dec. 31, according to charging documents. The Tribune is not naming the mother to protect the girl’s identity.
The officer arrested Thornton and the mother, 33, on outstanding warrants, but the mother escaped after she was handcuffed. When a detective interviewed the girl, she said her mother had given her the prescription drugs Valium and Klonopin “to try.” She also told the detective that for the “past few months,” Thornton had been having sex with her and forcing her to perform oral sex two or three times, according to charging documents. He allegedly said he would “kill her if she told anyone.”
The mother, who is still at large, was charged with endangerment of a child and escape, both third-degree felonies.
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Sex offender charged with raping 13-year-old
A 30-year-old Sandy man, who served a prison sentence for sexual activity with a minor five years ago, was charged with raping a child and giving her alcohol at a home in Sandy around mid-December.
A teenager who was with the 13-year-old girl and another friend told police he saw Brad Jay Young making out and then later having sex with the 13-year-old girl at the home after all of them had consumed alcohol provided by Young.
Young was arrested on Thursday and booked into the Salt Lake County jail, where he is being held on $100,000 bail. He is charged with rape of a child, a first-degree felony, and three counts of supplying alcohol to a minor, a class A misdemeanor.
In 2005, Young pleaded guilty to two counts of unlawful sexual activity with a minor, according to court documents. He is listed as a sex offender with the state.
He served time in the Utah State Prison for the offenses and was later released.
Young was also one of several residents of a Salt Lake City halfway house who in 2010 were charged with forging Utah Transit Authority bus passes to use and sell.
He was charged with a third-degree felony attempt to possess forgery writing or device, but pleaded guilty to a class A misdemeanor.
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Sex offender charged with raping 13-year-old
A 30-year-old Sandy man, who served a prison sentence for sexual activity with a minor five years ago, was charged with raping a child and giving her alcohol at a home in Sandy around mid-December.
A teenager who was with the 13-year-old girl and another friend told police he saw Brad Jay Young making out and then later having sex with the 13-year-old girl at the home after all of them had consumed alcohol provided by Young.
Young was arrested on Thursday and booked into the Salt Lake County jail, where he is being held on $100,000 bail. He is charged with rape of a child, a first-degree felony, and three counts of supplying alcohol to a minor, a class A misdemeanor.
In 2005, Young pleaded guilty to two counts of unlawful sexual activity with a minor, according to court documents. He is listed as a sex offender with the state.
He served time in the Utah State Prison for the offenses and was later released.
Young was also one of several residents of a Salt Lake City halfway house who in 2010 were charged with forging Utah Transit Authority bus passes to use and sell.
He was charged with a third-degree felony attempt to possess forgery writing or device, but pleaded guilty to a class A misdemeanor.
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Wednesday, January 12, 2011
A Family's Heartbreak: A Parent's Introduction to Parental Alienation
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Good Read - It’s OK Not To Be OK By Mark D Lerner, Ph.D.
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It’s OK Not To Be OK by, Mark D Lerner, Ph.D.
"There are books to help you. Unfortunately, we don’t usually reach out for those books until after emotional scars have formed and we’re struggling with a traumatic stress disorder.
This book will teach you what you need to know while you’re living through a traumatic experience. It provides practical information that will help you understand what’s happening to you now, so you can regain the sense of control that seems to have been taken away. It offers strategies that will ease your pain, keep you functioning and lessen the likelihood of ongoing emotional suffering. Ultimately, it will teach you how to survive and thrive."
It’s OK Not To Be OK ...Right Now.
Mark D. Lerner, Ph.D.
The Emotionally Abusive Relationship: How to Stop Being Abused and How to Stop Abusing
The Emotionally Abusive Relationship: How to Stop Being Abused and How to Stop Abusing Larger Image The Emotionally Abusive Relationship: How to Stop Being Abused and How to Stop Abusing Beverly Engel ISBN: 978-0-471-45403-8 Paperback 272 pages August 2003 US $14.95 Add to Cart This price is valid for United States. Change location to view local pricing and availability. Other Available Formats: Adobe E-Book Evaluation Copy Instructors may request an evaluation copy for this title. "Engel doesn't just describe-she shows us the way out." -Susan Forward, author of Emotional Blackmail Praise for the emotionally abusive relationship "In this book, Beverly Engel clearly and with caring offers step-by-step strategies to stop emotional abuse. . . helping both victims and abusers to identify the patterns of this painful and traumatic type of abuse. This book is a guide both for individuals and for couples stuck in the tragic patterns of emotional abuse." -Marti Loring, Ph.D., author of Emotional Abuse and coeditor of The Journal of Emotional Abuse "This groundbreaking book succeeds in helping people stop emotional abuse by focusing on both the abuser and the abused and showing each party what emotional abuse is, how it affects the relationship, and how to stop it. Its unique focus on the dynamic relationship makes it more likely that each person will grasp the tools for change and really use them." -Randi Kreger, author of The Stop Walking on Eggshells Workbook and owner of BPDCentral.com The number of people who become involved with partners who abuse them emotionally and/or who are emotionally abusive themselves is phenomenal, and yet emotional abuse is the least understood form of abuse. In this breakthrough book, Beverly Engel, one of the world's leading experts on the subject, shows us what it is and what to do about it. Whether you suspect you are being emotionally abused, fear that you might be emotionally abusing your partner, or think that both you and your partner are emotionally abusing each other, this book is for you. The Emotionally Abusive Relationship will tell you how to identify emotional abuse and how to find the roots of your behavior. Combining dramatic personal stories with action steps to heal, Engel provides prescriptive strategies that will allow you and your partner to work together to stop bringing out the worst in each other and stop the abuse. By teaching those who are being emotionally abused how to help themselves and those who are being emotionally abusive how to stop abusing, The Emotionally Abusive Relationship offers the expert guidance and support you need.
Larger Image
The Emotionally Abusive Relationship: How to Stop Being Abused and How to Stop Abusing
Beverly Engel
ISBN: 978-0-471-45403-8
Paperback
272 pages
August 2003
US $14.95 Add to Cart
This price is valid for United States. Change location to view local pricing and availability.
Other Available Formats: Adobe E-Book
Evaluation Copy
Instructors may request an evaluation copy for this title.
"Engel doesn't just describe-she shows us the way out."
-Susan Forward, author of Emotional Blackmail Praise for the emotionally abusive relationship
"In this book, Beverly Engel clearly and with caring offers step-by-step strategies to stop emotional abuse. . . helping both victims and abusers to identify the patterns of this painful and traumatic type of abuse. This book is a guide both for individuals and for couples stuck in the tragic patterns of emotional abuse."
-Marti Loring, Ph.D., author of Emotional Abuse
and coeditor of The Journal of Emotional Abuse
"This groundbreaking book succeeds in helping people stop emotional abuse by focusing on both the abuser and the abused and showing each party what emotional abuse is, how it affects the relationship, and how to stop it. Its unique focus on the dynamic relationship makes it more likely that each person will grasp the tools for change and really use them."
-Randi Kreger, author of The Stop Walking on Eggshells Workbook
and owner of BPDCentral.com
The number of people who become involved with partners who abuse them emotionally and/or who are emotionally abusive themselves is phenomenal, and yet emotional abuse is the least understood form of abuse. In this breakthrough book, Beverly Engel, one of the world's leading experts on the subject, shows us what it is and what to do about it.
Whether you suspect you are being emotionally abused, fear that you might be emotionally abusing your partner, or think that both you and your partner are emotionally abusing each other, this book is for you. The Emotionally Abusive Relationship will tell you how to identify emotional abuse and how to find the roots of your behavior. Combining dramatic personal stories with action steps to heal, Engel provides prescriptive strategies that will allow you and your partner to work together to stop bringing out the worst in each other and stop the abuse.
By teaching those who are being emotionally abused how to help themselves and those who are being emotionally abusive how to stop abusing, The Emotionally Abusive Relationship offers the expert guidance and support you need.
The Emotionally Abusive Relationship: How to Stop Being Abused and How to Stop Abusing
 The Emotionally Abusive Relationship: How to Stop Being Abused and How to Stop Abusing ISBN: 978-0-471-45403-8 Paperback 272 pages August 2003 US $14.95  Add to CartThis price is valid for United States. Change location to view local pricing and availability.Other Available Formats: Adobe E-Book | Instructors may request an evaluation copy for this title. |
"Engel doesn't just describe-she shows us the way out."
-Susan Forward, author of Emotional Blackmail Praise for the emotionally abusive relationship
"In this book, Beverly Engel clearly and with caring offers step-by-step strategies to stop emotional abuse. . . helping both victims and abusers to identify the patterns of this painful and traumatic type of abuse. This book is a guide both for individuals and for couples stuck in the tragic patterns of emotional abuse."
-Marti Loring, Ph.D., author of Emotional Abuse
and coeditor of The Journal of Emotional Abuse
"This groundbreaking book succeeds in helping people stop emotional abuse by focusing on both the abuser and the abused and showing each party what emotional abuse is, how it affects the relationship, and how to stop it. Its unique focus on the dynamic relationship makes it more likely that each person will grasp the tools for change and really use them."
-Randi Kreger, author of The Stop Walking on Eggshells Workbook
and owner of BPDCentral.com
The number of people who become involved with partners who abuse them emotionally and/or who are emotionally abusive themselves is phenomenal, and yet emotional abuse is the least understood form of abuse. In this breakthrough book, Beverly Engel, one of the world's leading experts on the subject, shows us what it is and what to do about it.
Whether you suspect you are being emotionally abused, fear that you might be emotionally abusing your partner, or think that both you and your partner are emotionally abusing each other, this book is for you. The Emotionally Abusive Relationship will tell you how to identify emotional abuse and how to find the roots of your behavior. Combining dramatic personal stories with action steps to heal, Engel provides prescriptive strategies that will allow you and your partner to work together to stop bringing out the worst in each other and stop the abuse.
By teaching those who are being emotionally abused how to help themselves and those who are being emotionally abusive how to stop abusing, The Emotionally Abusive Relationship offers the expert guidance and support you need.
-Susan Forward, author of Emotional Blackmail Praise for the emotionally abusive relationship
"In this book, Beverly Engel clearly and with caring offers step-by-step strategies to stop emotional abuse. . . helping both victims and abusers to identify the patterns of this painful and traumatic type of abuse. This book is a guide both for individuals and for couples stuck in the tragic patterns of emotional abuse."
-Marti Loring, Ph.D., author of Emotional Abuse
and coeditor of The Journal of Emotional Abuse
"This groundbreaking book succeeds in helping people stop emotional abuse by focusing on both the abuser and the abused and showing each party what emotional abuse is, how it affects the relationship, and how to stop it. Its unique focus on the dynamic relationship makes it more likely that each person will grasp the tools for change and really use them."
-Randi Kreger, author of The Stop Walking on Eggshells Workbook
and owner of BPDCentral.com
The number of people who become involved with partners who abuse them emotionally and/or who are emotionally abusive themselves is phenomenal, and yet emotional abuse is the least understood form of abuse. In this breakthrough book, Beverly Engel, one of the world's leading experts on the subject, shows us what it is and what to do about it.
Whether you suspect you are being emotionally abused, fear that you might be emotionally abusing your partner, or think that both you and your partner are emotionally abusing each other, this book is for you. The Emotionally Abusive Relationship will tell you how to identify emotional abuse and how to find the roots of your behavior. Combining dramatic personal stories with action steps to heal, Engel provides prescriptive strategies that will allow you and your partner to work together to stop bringing out the worst in each other and stop the abuse.
By teaching those who are being emotionally abused how to help themselves and those who are being emotionally abusive how to stop abusing, The Emotionally Abusive Relationship offers the expert guidance and support you need.
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